He had been dating a woman for six months and had strong feelings for her.They were both in their late 30s and knew what they wanted out of life, so he was contemplating popping the question.This is a critical question in the discernment process, and one that is on many peoples’ minds.Personally, I think there are many indicators to help you know if you are with the right person and the way you feel about someone is certainly one of them. Therein lies the beauty of marriage; learning to love each other even more when those feelings aren’t present.
see it, there's always some guy, SOMEWHERE who's going to be angry you're sleeping with a girl - whether he's her boyfriend, her ex-boyfriend, her husband, or just some guy who's already "called dibs" on her and you moved faster, it doesn't matter - somebody somewhere is upset that you're with "his" girl.But, as he stated in the note, with the rate of divorce being so high he was questioning his ability to detect whether or not he was making the right decision.He wanted to have some absolutes he could count on, some sort of recipe for knowing 100% you are with the right person.For example, we get the car we've always wanted, but then it's just "okay" after awhile. There wouldn't be any "emptiness." I've found that girls often don't fully understand what's going on when it comes to sex.Instead of realizing that a car can't really satisfy us, we usually make the error of thinking, "Well, I guess that wasn't the one will give me lasting fulfillment.") But the emptiness continued. That is, their perspective on the whole thing is very different from a guy's.Lately though, I've been seeing some pretty lame attempts by men trying to get my girlfriend.