When I confronted my husband, Chris (not his real name), with my test results that night, he denied he was to blame.
However, contrary to popular belief, there are more "married men looking for married men" out there.
C., suburbs, he curled into a fetal position on a porch chair and admitted more than I ever wanted to know: He had been having anonymous sex with men. it just happened...; At gay bars, there are back rooms with holes in the walls..." A wave of nausea swept over me as I listened to his agonized confession. We looked like the perfect family in our Christmas card portrait.
"I don't know how this could have happened," he stammered. But I kept quiet and thought, I've held up as long as I could. Both of us grew up in the small-town South, and Chris was in the military.
Bars and clubs in the US tend to be more for fun than the future and not everyone wants to combine their romantic and professional lives.
But there is one place where it is possible to make that long-term dream a reality – and that’s online.